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Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those who think so, why can't they be thought of as someone who enjoys a variety of sexual pleasure?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 01:43

Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those who think so, why can't they be thought of as someone who enjoys a variety of sexual pleasure?

For such people, everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. There is power, these people think, in who does the penetrating and who is penetrated.

Usually, those people have some deeply weird and kind of insecure ideas about sex. Most typical? Manly he-men of manly manliness penetrate their partners. Weak inferior feeeeeemales are penetrated. A man who gets penetrated is no better than a feeeeeemale.

Is it about variety of sexual pleasure? Hell no. If you’re the one being penetrated, you’re no better than a woman. If you like being penetrated, you want to be no better than a woman.

Why do women stubbornly refuse to let men lead, even though they are attracted to the man, and the man both loves and desires them? Why do they get angry and blame the man when he gets fed up and walks away, when it's entirely their own fault?

Yeah, there are dipshits who believe that. There are people who believe all kinds of dingbatty things.

This is the seed of self-loathing.

So yeah, some people do indeed believe this, and those who believe it and also like anal end up twisted in some really unhealthy ways.

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

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